Customs of this World
It’s been a week of celebrations and milestones for our family. I take that back. It’s been a month of milestones. This week we added to this list Zoe’s culmination from 5th grade (she’s moving on to middle school next year) and Sophie’s 8th birthday (yesterday). Watching our girls grow up is one of the greatest joys of parenting. There is a sense of loss for some parents, knowing that those toddler days are gone, but I most enjoy seeing them grow and mature and achieve new things in their lives, like hearing Zoe use the word “acculturation” in her culmination ceremony on Tuesday, or watching Sophie finish reading yet another book.
On Sunday, Elysabeth and I will drive the girls to Pine Springs Ranch in Idyllwild. It’s amazing to think that I went to that same summer camp some 30 years ago. I am so excited to drive them up to camp, as my dad drove my brother and me to camp so many years ago. It feels right, somehow, to be connected to a family in this way. Not just my biological family, but a church family. In the midst of our world that changes faster than we can keep up with—that discards new products within months to make room for the new—it’s comforting to participate in relationships and rituals that endure and span generations. It feels somehow human to be linked in this way.
The author of Hebrews writes,
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect (Hebrews 12:2, New Living Translation).
Or, as the Phillips translation puts it,
Don’t let the world around you squeeze you into its own mould, but let God re-mould your minds from within, so that you may prove in practice that the plan of God for you is good, meets all his demands and moves towards the goal of true maturity.
Our culture of individualism is perpetually squeezing us into its mold. We move from one new thing to the next, seeking fulfillment and happiness in shopping and experiences. Meanwhile scriptures calls us to pour our lives into others in bonds of friendship an unity that will stand the test of time. This is a serious challenge for the church and one that, with your help, our congregation will continue to navigate together. For me, driving my kids to summer camp is one small step.
Grace and peace,
—Ryan
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